So every girls got a dream right? I like living life the way I wish. I'm no rich girl I can assure you that but I'm also not tight with money either. People often questions what I do for a living to afford the lifestyle that I do. Two word: MONEY MANAGEMENT. Unlike other teens I do not snack on food that would harm my body, I do not shop waste my time at shopping centers that would deplete my bank account over things I toss aside like nothing within a few days of buying even when the price tag is still attached to it, and I do not by what I would allow someone else to borrow or wear before I have a chance to wear it.
That is my rule of thumb.
-"IS IT WORTH THE BUY?"
-"WOULD I LEND THIS OUT EASILY?"
-"CAN IT WAIT?"
-"WILL GIRLS HATE ME IF I HAD IT FIRST?
Silly I know but welcome to the world of girls and the silent battles. I know for a fact females aren't fond of me at first site. I have killer curves, natural charisma, a flirty and fun attitude, and top it off I have a very sharp and witty tongue. Trust me I am not showing off or being arrogant; this is simply knowing or recognizing oneself and ones strong points (which a lot of girls doesn't do enough so they judge others whom are able to do it so harshly by labeling them with names). Let's face it, their just afraid to be happy with themselves and if you're one of them... its okay you're just afraid other will hate you if you think you're beautiful or just perfect the way you are. Ladies- look in the mirror and repeat after me. I AM ME and there's NO OTHER ME IN THE WORLD- I am GOD DARN SPECIAL and there's no other like me. And truth is.. there isn't. I'm not any more special than you are but I am special in my own ways. Back to the topic.
I save 20$ a days no matter what. In seven days I have 140$ (I can now buy myself a shirt/dress/or anything I wish) or I can wait till next week when I have 280$. Or I can wait one more week and have 420$ or by the end of the month when I have 560$. Or I can skip this month and save again for 1120$. You get the point.
Lets make it simple. Have you ever heard of odd jobs? This is a great ways for teenagers to make money. Hell if you walk 10 of your neighbor's dogs at 10$ each.. that's 100$ easy. Keep the 80 for paying bills or for the days that you don't make so much from the odd jobs and 20 goes into piggy. What odd jobs are great right now? Walk the dog, Sell something old, Babysits, nails, makeup, gardening, cleaning in other words there are many ways to get 10-20 bucks here and there within a few hours. How you find these jobs takes time. Instead of hanging out and wasting money you can easily put in 3-4 hours doing something for an extra 20's in your saving.
For older girls. There's a thing call saving account. Everyday whether I make money or not I push 20$ into an account or I push in 140$ so I'll be done that week. I'll spend the rest of the week making money and putting that in my account where I can spend and pay bills easily. The saving is still there and untouched. Little things like 140$ a week adds up when you don't spend very much. Yes I do go out but that's my debit/credit account problem. Not my saving. My saving is an untouched thing. If I wanted to buy more than one thing. I would have separate saving plans for each. Yes I do keep track in my book what I want to buy and how much I would need. I would save from them separately and when that number hits. I buy it. Sometimes all of them hits within a few days of each other and in the same month I can afford to spend 10K and higher easily. All from long term saving.
I got my Hermes Birkin Bag 35CM Orange Swift bag at Malleries- it cost me $16,840 at the time. I bought it to celebrate my 23rd b-day when I wanted a change in my life. It was a present to myself to get one step closer to what I wanted. 16K is a lot right? It's not a lot if you've been saving for it since 15. Can you imagine a 15 years old girls wanting a Hermes? You only knew of Hollister at 15. In my eyes those were home clothings. I never liked matching other girls clothing; it erks me to see someone wearing the same thing I did at a party or what not. NO! It's not because I'm stuck up... Truth is...back then I didn't have nice curves so I was always at a disadvantage if I had worn the same thing someone else did. So when I wore something the no one else could afford or even knew about... they would compliment more on my style instead of what I lacked. I lost quite a large amount of money when I bought a house with my ex boyfriend of which I walked away with nothing because I really didn't want anything to do with him. When All went to hell is when my spending habits gone haywire. I originality wanted to save up at least 10K for our engagement and 60K for our wedding and to open a small business with him but since that gone to hell and I have money in the bank I've been traveling and living life to the fullest. And when I say living it up.. I mean really spending it off. Those money were like my dreams coming true as I get 140$ closer each month to marrying him and our life together. First love.. peh.. Well you think it's not possible because you don't want whatever it is that you're saving for enough.
Enjoy my closet video!!!
That is my rule of thumb.
-"IS IT WORTH THE BUY?"
-"WOULD I LEND THIS OUT EASILY?"
-"CAN IT WAIT?"
-"WILL GIRLS HATE ME IF I HAD IT FIRST?
Silly I know but welcome to the world of girls and the silent battles. I know for a fact females aren't fond of me at first site. I have killer curves, natural charisma, a flirty and fun attitude, and top it off I have a very sharp and witty tongue. Trust me I am not showing off or being arrogant; this is simply knowing or recognizing oneself and ones strong points (which a lot of girls doesn't do enough so they judge others whom are able to do it so harshly by labeling them with names). Let's face it, their just afraid to be happy with themselves and if you're one of them... its okay you're just afraid other will hate you if you think you're beautiful or just perfect the way you are. Ladies- look in the mirror and repeat after me. I AM ME and there's NO OTHER ME IN THE WORLD- I am GOD DARN SPECIAL and there's no other like me. And truth is.. there isn't. I'm not any more special than you are but I am special in my own ways. Back to the topic.
I save 20$ a days no matter what. In seven days I have 140$ (I can now buy myself a shirt/dress/or anything I wish) or I can wait till next week when I have 280$. Or I can wait one more week and have 420$ or by the end of the month when I have 560$. Or I can skip this month and save again for 1120$. You get the point.
Lets make it simple. Have you ever heard of odd jobs? This is a great ways for teenagers to make money. Hell if you walk 10 of your neighbor's dogs at 10$ each.. that's 100$ easy. Keep the 80 for paying bills or for the days that you don't make so much from the odd jobs and 20 goes into piggy. What odd jobs are great right now? Walk the dog, Sell something old, Babysits, nails, makeup, gardening, cleaning in other words there are many ways to get 10-20 bucks here and there within a few hours. How you find these jobs takes time. Instead of hanging out and wasting money you can easily put in 3-4 hours doing something for an extra 20's in your saving.
For older girls. There's a thing call saving account. Everyday whether I make money or not I push 20$ into an account or I push in 140$ so I'll be done that week. I'll spend the rest of the week making money and putting that in my account where I can spend and pay bills easily. The saving is still there and untouched. Little things like 140$ a week adds up when you don't spend very much. Yes I do go out but that's my debit/credit account problem. Not my saving. My saving is an untouched thing. If I wanted to buy more than one thing. I would have separate saving plans for each. Yes I do keep track in my book what I want to buy and how much I would need. I would save from them separately and when that number hits. I buy it. Sometimes all of them hits within a few days of each other and in the same month I can afford to spend 10K and higher easily. All from long term saving.
I got my Hermes Birkin Bag 35CM Orange Swift bag at Malleries- it cost me $16,840 at the time. I bought it to celebrate my 23rd b-day when I wanted a change in my life. It was a present to myself to get one step closer to what I wanted. 16K is a lot right? It's not a lot if you've been saving for it since 15. Can you imagine a 15 years old girls wanting a Hermes? You only knew of Hollister at 15. In my eyes those were home clothings. I never liked matching other girls clothing; it erks me to see someone wearing the same thing I did at a party or what not. NO! It's not because I'm stuck up... Truth is...back then I didn't have nice curves so I was always at a disadvantage if I had worn the same thing someone else did. So when I wore something the no one else could afford or even knew about... they would compliment more on my style instead of what I lacked. I lost quite a large amount of money when I bought a house with my ex boyfriend of which I walked away with nothing because I really didn't want anything to do with him. When All went to hell is when my spending habits gone haywire. I originality wanted to save up at least 10K for our engagement and 60K for our wedding and to open a small business with him but since that gone to hell and I have money in the bank I've been traveling and living life to the fullest. And when I say living it up.. I mean really spending it off. Those money were like my dreams coming true as I get 140$ closer each month to marrying him and our life together. First love.. peh.. Well you think it's not possible because you don't want whatever it is that you're saving for enough.
Enjoy my closet video!!!
SO after the video went up. I dyed my hair red. I guess a few haters got into the forum and attacked me with what they thought would bother me. I don't owe you any explanation nor do I owe myself any shame to all I've done up to now because I'm happy. I do have one advice for you. Comparing me to my sister doesn't bother me at all. We are of two different people and it doesn't hurt my feeling at all that you think she is better. Heck I'm stoke because unlike her... I don't really try too hard to be a star online. I like my life just the way it is. When she gets to my age she too will care less about the online life and more on her real life.. the ones that actually put a smile on her face and one day.. memories. I realized that that's why my video style change. I sorta give people exclusive to my life.. sharing.. I don't need jealous subbies that I have to impress. I don't need to impress people that doesn't like me for me. I'm tired of that 15 years olf image of luvableviet. I am the 23 years old... full grown and different person. I like life and to me it's at it's finest until I have another change of lifestyle later on in life (say when I'm marry). Until then. I suggest you grow up in reality too... Sitting behind the screen to deem a person as good or bad base on what they wear, buys, spends, or act.. is pretty shallow and childish. Who gave you the right to do that anyways? It's not like you're getting paid for it. Spend more time making friends... it might help you later in the long run instead of pointing what you lack in life to hatred toward me.
On the real....
It's 2:41 A.M and I still can't sleep. I need to get up early tomorrow to prep for DUYEN'S wedding.
I will miss my boyfriend this weekend. Sigh. I've grown custom to his scent and warmth. Darn this addictions to comfort. His sister came back so today so it's a family meeting eating crawfish FRIDAY!!!
I found what I want to wear already.. So yay!!!
I have acne.. FML. Out of no where>> FREAK YOU MOTHER NATURE!!!
